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Reflects a respect and caring for all members of the adoption triad (birth parent, adoptive parent, and child).
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Seeks a "good fit" between a child and his or her parents. |
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Always gives priority to the welfare of the child. |
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Is based on healthy motivation and realistic expectations.
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Recognizes that adoption is a life long journey.
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Provides counseling for the birth parent prior to and after the adoption (other than in cases of abandonment). |
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Is never rushed, coercive, reactive, or based on fear or shame.
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Provides education and counseling for the adoptive parents. |
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Clarifies and sets healthy boundaries to aid in communication and stability. |
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Prepares triad members to access resources in the future. |
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Recognizes that adoption is not "second best." |
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Recognizes that adoption in itself is not a "cure" or "solution" to past losses, but can provide a healing environment. |
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Honors the richness and uniqueness of people of different cultures, races, and countries. |
