Child Care Resource & Referral

Family and Friends Care

Having a relative or a friend care for your child -- in your home or theirs -- is an option for some families. In general, family and friends care arrangements are not regulated, and you can work out creative pay arrangements, such as reciprocal care. Remember that if you hire a friend, you need to talk to an accountant about your tax obligations and other IRS requirements.

As with any child care arrangement, be sure to discuss your mutual expectations in advance, including such concerns as the schedule of care, payment or other compensation, discipline, nutrition, TV policy, safety, toilet training, and more. Good communication with caregivers is important in the success of any child care situation, but is critical with relatives and friends because of the personal nature of your relationship with them.